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Dear Makayla . . . .

Happy Birthday, Makayla Bug!!! I want you to know how special you are today.

You were born on Super Bowl Sunday 7 years ago. We were so glad to see you and were especially glad that you arrived healthy and well. There is a saying that goes, "When they put you in my arms, you slipped into my heart." For you, that is not really true because I loved you even before you were born. I loved you just knowing that you were there and waiting to join our family. I loved the thought that we would soon have another little girl to dress up in cute dresses and to play dolls with Emily.

We really do love having you in our family. You are a wonderful little sister for Emily and a loving big sister to Ricky and Andrew. We love it when you are silly. You make us laugh all the time. You are fun to be around. You are good at thinking of fun games to play and you say funny things. Like last week, you guys were getting ready for the mini-dance marathon at school. You dressed Ricky all up in his church clothes. I told Ricky that he didn't have to look that fancy for the school dance and that he'd be better off if he just wore jeans. You said, "Please don't make him change. He looks FAB!" You are also very good at drawing pictures and writing thoughtful notes. I am glad you like to write in your journal. I like to read about what you think of things and what things were important to you that day.

You are good snuggler. I love to read books with you because you cuddle right up and listen (or read). You are always willing to give a hug when a hug is needed (even when it is not, but I guess we always need a hug).

I love you! I hope you feel very special today because you definitely are very special to a lot of people.

Love,
Mom



Comments

Anna Lynne said…
Bonni- I love this post! I love all the pictures at the end. what a special girl. Truly a wonderful spirit.
February 4, 2009 at 2:15 PM
The Mergenthaler Family said…
I'm adding this comment from Aunt Anjee sent via e-mail:

Makayla,

You are so special to your Uncle Jeremy and I too. I loved seeing the cute pictures of you with your birthday crown. All of the things that your mommy said about you made my heart swell because they are all true, We miss you so much. I loved hearing the story about how you told Ricky he looked "FAB" You have the most fun personality! I also love that you like to cuddle. Josh is not very cuddly so I miss cuddling with my Makalya. Love you.

Aunt Anjee
February 5, 2009 at 3:30 PM
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